But things did not turn out that way. Registration was simple enough -- if you were able to find out where the registration took place. The fees seemed reasonable. Then came the meeting and the overwhelming surprise!

You were told that 'your' child could play soccer but only if someone volunteered to coach the team. Most of you, I am sure, do not recall raising your hand. Yet lo and behold you found yourself surrounded by well-wishers. They were calling you by your 'new' first name and it sounded like 'coach.'
Sound familiar?

This scenario is currently taking place in every single soccer community in the country. You are not alone!

So - lets not get overwhelmed. Lets' just get started:

First, find out who in your community is available to help you...a few phone calls should lead you to a directory of numbers which should include: The local president; vice president; coaching coordinator; referee coordinator and age group coordinator. These people, in most cases, are individuals who are dedicated to helping the children and are, usually, readily available to help.

If you are unable to locate any local numbers then call - The United States Youth Soccer Association at: 1-800-476-2237 ask them for the phone number of your State Association. Call your State Association they will have names and numbers for people in your city. If you are still having problems -- let us know and we'll try to help you in the next issue of this magazine.

Next, get all parents involved. You must form (two) teams:
Team 1 - You and the Players
Team 2- Team Manager and the Parents.

It is crucial that you appoint someone to be the Team Manager. He or she must work with the parents leaving you more time with the players.

The Team Manager along with the Parents must take care of 'things' that would take your time away from the players, such as: Transportation, Telephoning, Maintenance of Equipment, Game Refreshments, Social Functions & Team Events, First Aid and other Team Activities.

Have the Team Manger help you in: Establishing practice times, Complete team roster and game schedules, Develop team guidelines for games and practices. And then make plans for the first and most important social event of the season: 'The Preseason Team Picnic.' Yes, let your parents know that your season will begin with an event of Food, Family and Fun!

FOOD is handled by your Team Manager and the parents.

FAMILY begins with you making an attempt to get to know each parent on a personal basis. Freely and fully discuss your mutual wants, needs, fear, and expectations.

Let the parents know your background: soccer experience -playing, coaching, studying; experience working with children; goals for the team, both long and short-term. Discuss with the parents your philosophy towards: coaching/teaching; winning and losing. Outline your plans for: practices; homework and games.

Let the parents know your Team Managers background and duties for example: You will solely work with the players; the Team Manager will assist with player development taking charge of the team when you are not available for practices and games. The Team Manger will consider the team needs and organize the parents to help fulfill those needs.

FUN is having the parents and players participate in a game of soccer (it is recommended) that the game last as long as the children's' league game. You need to have the parents experience the mental and physical demands on the children - You need their Empathy!

After the picnic game -- supply some oxygen- Then begin discussing with the Parents' their responsibilities: Before the Game; During the Game; at Half-time; After the Game and back at home. They will be more receptive to your suggestion 'if they have played' a full game of soccer -- guaranteed!

Then make every effort to attend a coaching course. Most "State Association" can make course(s) available on a request basis throughout the year. The courses are designed for coaches (like you) who are working with youth players. They are organized and structured to cover the mental, physical and social aspect of playing soccer. You will learn about the who, what, when, where and why of child and player development.

Of course books and video tapes are another valuable source of information.

At this time it may seem overwhelming -- getting involved in this new venture. But, through positive coaching you will be overwhelmed by the players' responsiveness to you. Realize that as a coach/teacher you will become a catalyst who can make a positive difference in the lives of these children.

Through a cooperative relationship with the Team Manager you will be overwhelmed by the support the parents will give you.

And by attending a 'State' coaching course you will be overwhelmed at how simple and enjoyable coaching youth soccer can be. Have FUN!